Like A One Year Old

Do you ever notice how you can read some books over and over again and still pick up something new each time? It happened to me this week. One of the first positive thinking books I read was Jeffrey Gitomer's "Little Gold Book of Yes Attitude". It is an excellent book that has really helped me change my attitude, increase my confidence, and hopefully helped me positively impact others.

I began re-reading this book, as I often do with excellent books like it. I noticed a part I don't recall reading before. He mentions (p.178) how we treat a one year old. A child that age is learning and doing some exciting things, like walking and talking. Parents take major strides to encourage their kids to take those steps without help, and to say those words the right way. We are full of encouragement. When they do it, we congratulate and praise them for their accomplishment, celebrating each step of the way.

The author's point is that we need to use encouragement regularly in our lives, not only with one years olds, but with everyone. Let us continue to celebrate our kids' achievements, even as they get older and more responsible for their success. Let us encourage our spouses, our friends, and even those we don't know. Let us praise them and appreciate them regularly.

The author adds that we actually feel more fulfilled when we encourage others. I believe it. So as long as we are all benefitting, why not take the extra time to encourage those around you and appreciate the things they do. You will make their day, and I believe it will come back at you quickly. I encourage you to try it.

Have an excellent day : )